I'm in about the same spot as you. But remember, its all about enjoying the experience, don't worry about the results. Of course, having young ones, you need to get some fish or they become disinterested. I have a 7 yr old son and I will be taking him out for the very first time this weekend (hopefully). So, yes, I too will have to launch the boat and retrieve it by myself. My main goal getting into it this year with my son was to keep us both safe.. I think I've prepared pretty well in that regard. However, although I'm hardly a novice at fishing, I am new to boating and that can be a little unsettling knowing that I'm a novice and I will be doing it mostly by yourself. Enjoy the memories!